How To Choose The Right High School For Your Child

July 1, 2020

What Makes A Good High School? 

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When it comes to choosing a high school, it’s tough to select one that balances your needs and your child’s. Although it is more about them than it is about you, you’re the one who will be paying school fees and who will be left to deal with the decision once it’s been made. What makes a good high school though? We’ve put together a few characteristics and factors to consider. 

1) Reputation is everything

Embarking on the process of “how to choose a high school” often starts with what others have to say about it. Try and research the schools on your shortlist as much as possible. There might be articles online, social media pages and even word of mouth from people you know. Don’t be afraid to ask questions, a school worth choosing is more than happy to answer them. If not, they might not value communication. 

2) Do they participate in the broader community?

Community involvement is most definitely a reason for choosing a high school for your child. Not only does this keep your child and your family invested in the community, it also helps to improve it too. This could be in the form of outreach initiatives that support and empower local residents or causes who need it most. 

3) What is the attitude of the students who attend the school? 

A good school produces students who learn because they want to and not because they have to. Does the school’s approach to learning encourage kids to give of their best and is there sufficient academic support to help those who need a boost? Knowing that a school uses every avenue and resource to the benefit of the students who attend it is a sure way to know it’s a good option for your child. Again, speak to those whose children attend the schools you are considering. 

4) Is the school inclusive? 

Whilst rules are a given at every high school, you might want to question whether they are in place to include every student or exclude certain ones. A good school has a code of conduct that aims to empower every child to be who they are and give of their best. It should also have a strict anti-bullying policy that unites students, encouraging them to support one another. 

5) Does the school consider the end goal? 

The best schools are the ones who keep the end goal in mind. At Abbotts College, we do this in several ways. For starters, we look at each child individually and evaluate which alternative activities they need to bring them closer to their goals. Then, we do everything we can to set them up for the best possible matric results. That way, they can go on to conquer any tertiary programme they choose. Then, we involve the parents so that they can help their children reach their full potential. 

Make the right choice for your child 

At Abbotts College, we choose an alternative approach to learning. This helps our students achieve their goals and exceed their own expectations. We also provide an inclusive environment where they can be themselves. For more on us and our schools, please click here.

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